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A Coaching Journey – Pt. 5

So, after a bit of sweat and hard work, I got the strategic structure for Goal #2, and am hopefully on my way to staring down the other two goals.

In the meantime, I was so energized by the process, and revving my engine to move forward, that I decided to put some fuel in the tank and work on my scheduling (an action, not a strategy). Perhaps that was my way of celebrating. Or perhaps it was more of a visioning exercise for me.

I took pen to paper (sometimes computer just doesn’t cut it for me), and “chunked” my general schedule to reflect my weekly and/or long-term planning (e.g., cleaning and organizing; regular and not-so-regular appointments; writing; personal; follow-ups; correcting past sins…that last one will be explained in another blog). Then, I listed my “locked in” times in the average week.

Having completed this outline, I created a schedule for the upcoming week – times and all. (You should know that this is not like me. I generally only make lists when I am completely overwhelmed – and that is because I figure that, if I can write it down, it is do-able.)

In the meantime, as if trying to tell me something, I received a free scheduler in the mail (not a calendar, but an actual scheduler!).

As I said, I listed by the hour or half-hour, what my week would look like, with a little “to do if there is time” at the bottom of each day, as well as underlines and stars for the very important tasks. Then, as I completed each task (not always on time, but darn close), I checked it off. And, oh, it felt so good!

Unfortunately, I dropped the ball after a week. Habits (good or bad) are not made in a day (or a week). I’ll take another stab at it (again and again, if need be), and finally get there, I hope. After all, I do have that scheduler!

 

 

 

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The above entry is part of a guest blog series titled “A Coaching Journey” written by my friend, client, and talented writer, Linda Epstein. She has graciously agreed to write on her experience with the coaching process as she navigates it, to give a first-hand view of what the journey is like. Visit weekly to find out more!

 

Read the rest of “A Coaching Journey” by clicking below:

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What The Chilkoot Trail Taught Me about Leadership – Pt. 2

marielle_on_trail_cropped_2I love going on adventures and trying new things, so when I started hearing about this great hiking trail in the Yukon called the Chilkoot Trail, I was very intrigued.

I mentioned my thoughts about hiking the Chilkoot to my sister Lucille, a transplanted prairie girl who now lives in Whitehorse, and she said that her partner and his family had done it many times, so I thought, “How hard could it be?!”

We completed our hiking party with a friend of hers, Michelle, and agreed that we would undertake the five day hike in August 2006.

We filled out the necessary paperwork for our trail permits with Parks Canada and were excited to receive the approval for the dates for the hike. We bought our train tickets that would take us from Lake Bennett back to civilization (Skagway) – we were that confident.

I looked up whatever information I could on the web, but didn’t have access to what the area was really like, what the conditions could be like, how challenging it was and in exactly what kind of shape you needed to be in. So we we’re going on the experience of others. They made it so how hard could it be!

No worries I thought. I can do this. When I started planning for it, I thought, “Now where exactly do we train in Saskatchewan to ascend a mountain that is nearly 4000 feet in height?”

Again, I thought, “No worries. Let me think.” Well, I can do more squats to strengthen my legs for all of that climbing. So I added more squats.

Speaking of climbing: How can I get some vertical challenges into my training? Well, I can drive out to the old Blackstrap ski hill – hmm that might be a little too far to do this every day. OK, what about the hill at Diefenbaker Park in Saskatoon. Sure that will work. What else? Hmmm… well I guess I can hike around the river bank. Sure, that will work. Now that I have a few areas that have a bit of height, what else?

Well I need to get used to the extra weight on my back while I am hiking. How much weight will that be I wondered? I had no idea but I filled my pack with about 15 pounds of stuff and set out on short hikes around the City.

So I added these elements – elevation and weight – to my training program for the two months before our hike.

I believe my training certainly did help me get ready for the actual hike; however my actual pack ended up being much heavier – closer to 25 pounds. We wanted each of our packs to weigh roughly the same amount, so we removed whatever we could to make them lighter, but they still ended up being around the 25 pound mark. By the end of the first day, this pack felt a lot heavier and I did consider leaving stuff like my tent behind, as this was the heaviest item in my pack. I soon realized that would be a bad idea.

So what did I learn?

  • Best laid plans don’t always work out – plan for all possibilities including a plan B; prepare as much as you can with the current knowledge you have; accept that something might not go as planned, and just know that you can overcome the challenges
  • Speak to an expert – ask tons of questions – they love to share their knowledge and expertise
  • If you’re preparing for a trip in the mountains – go to the mountains to train or at least go a few times so you have a small idea of what you may be encountering. Wherever your adventure takes you, go to a similar area to train.
  • Train longer – a trip like this requires an amazing amount of strength and fitness
  • Train with as close to the actual hiking weight as possible
  • Buy a lighter tent
  • Go to an adventure/outfitter store and buy specific back-packing gear. I have seen amazing light gear that I would have loved to have had!
  • Do tons of research – read up about the area, conditions, weather, etc. as much as possible. Look for videos, and ask a lot of questions of folks who have the experience.
  • In short, be prepared and have a back-up plan just in case!

 

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What the Chilkoot Trail Taught Me about Leadership

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Hundreds of miners climb the Chilkoot Trail.

This year, I had the pleasure of spending the Christmas holidays with my sister and her family in Whitehorse, Yukon. I have visited Whitehorse many times and I am always in awe of this City – the beauty and ruggedness of the land; its hardy and adventuresome people, and its amazing history.

Reminders of the Klondike Gold Rush are everywhere. I always ask myself, what was it really like during the Gold Rush with thousands of people uprooting their lives and travelling long distances with great hopes and dreams of striking it rich?

The strength, determination, perseverance, and just plain stubbornness it took for those miners to cross the rugged terrain to stake their claim was quite an incredible feat. I know that first hand as I hiked the Chilkoot Trail in 2006 without the required ton of goods and equipment.

You may have seen one of the famous pictures of the Gold Rush era – that of a long line of men transporting their belongings over the summit of the Chilkoot Pass. It would take hours for someone to get back in line should they have the misfortune of falling out of line.

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Chilkoot Trail Mail – Click for a full map.

Why am I talking about this? Well, during my visit this past Christmas, I had a chance to reminisce with my sister and a friend about our hike of the historical Chilkoot Trail – a 53 km (33 mile) of rugged Northern wilderness that tested thousands of gold-hungry dreamers.

We shared laughter and stories while watching a video that I had shot during our journey for the first time. We looked at photos of our excited and nervous faces at the beginning of our trip, our exhausted faces and bodies at the end of each day, and the rugged beauty of this very special environment.

The footage and the photos reminded me of some of the emotions I felt gazing upon some of the most beautiful, rugged, and pristine environments in Northern Canada – humble in the face of my own insignificance, and very much in awe of Mother Nature – her strength, power and beauty. It wasn’t lost on me, however, that this was serious business. We were not at a theme park where a customer service representative was just next door. We could get in serious trouble fast and would be at the mercy of the mountain.

We also talked about what we learned about ourselves – the need to summon up the strength and courage to keep putting one step in front of the other despite the pain we felt, for example.

I know for a fact that I learned a lot about myself on this journey – things that have helped me enormously in facing other big challenges in my life.

So in this new year of 2015, I thought I would look back at this challenging journey and write about   some of the greatest lessons I learned on the mountain and the impact it had on me.

I greatly look forward to reminiscing with you about my journey on the Chilkoot Trail in this new blog series.

Marielle Gauthier supports individuals to live their extraordinary lives by facilitating positive change.

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A Coaching Journey – Pt. 4

I was reviewing my notes and prepping for my Strategy session with Marielle when I noticed that all three of my primary goals, and even my secondary goal, had a common roadblock that was preventing my moving forward. And that roadblock (or, rather, “a brick wall”) was procrastination. Marielle would call this “an insight”. And, indeed, it was.

I discovered that I am a world-class procrastinator, and that I have been letting it get in the way of my success in many areas of my life. So my strategy for the Strategy session was to start with Goal #2 because it specifically mentions procrastination in my “shined goal”.

It was the right choice, but easier said than done. The tendency, of course, is to want to smash down that wall and to act with full force…but, wait a minute: Action is later. Strategy is meant to lend structure to that strategy so it becomes a sustainable entity. It also isn’t supposed to cross over into the other goals. So I cooled down and struggled with the rules and the structure required for Goal #2. I wanted to cross over, but Marielle gently, yet firmly guided me through the task at hand.

I guess that’s what coaching is, and why it is one-on-one or small group rather than a larger group lecture. The hard work lays the new foundation so that, when I am truly ready to knock down that wall, I won’t fall under the weight of the bricks.

So, after finally setting a seven-point strategic structure, I was finally ready for Strategy #8 – to celebrate!

I do have homework – to discover in writing how I got to where I am in the first place – but I am celebrating moving forward with my goals in 2015. And I am looking forward to setting Strategies for my other goals. Hopefully, the next go-‘round will be easier.

 

 

 

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The above entry is part of a guest blog series titled “A Coaching Journey” written by my friend, client, and talented writer, Linda Epstein. She has graciously agreed to write on her experience with the coaching process as she navigates it, to give a first-hand view of what the journey is like. Visit weekly to find out more!

 

Read the rest of “A Coaching Journey” by clicking below:

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A Coaching Journey – Pt. 3

So, here I am. Face-to-face with Marielle and about to set my Primary Goals. I’m still unsure. I feel like I am confronting my future and stepping out of what has become a comfort zone for quite some time. But isn’t that what I wanted? So, I take a deep breath and dive in.

Marielle, intent on making this as straightforward as possible, gives me an overview of what to expect. She doesn’t sugar- coat the changes that I will need to make, but assures me that I am in the driver’s seat and she is just a passenger on this journey (that is reassuring, isn’t it?).

Each session, Marielle explains, will have a theme. This one: Setting Goals. Shouldn’t be too hard.

Before we begin, we consider what is in our lives at that moment and what emotion is attached. Then, we set it aside for now, so that we can focus on the task at hand. It is the way in which each session will begin.

My top three goals are fairly easy to list: Finances, Organization, Relationships. I have a secondary goal of Health, which, as I mentioned in my first entry, is moving ahead rather well and is, as it turns out, proof that I can do this.

Fleshing out the details of these goals is a little more difficult. For example, I know that I need to get my finances in order. Who doesn’t? But, how do I want to alleviate this stressor without disturbing my preferred lifestyle too much, yet shake up the status quo?

We work on a general statement, and I discover that I want any paid work I do to energize and excite me while reducing my debt. Is that possibility out there? But we haven’t yet arrived at that point. We are just setting goals. Focus, Linda.

Marielle asks me to reduce my larger goal to a few words – a motto, or banner, that will flag my desire when I hear or see it. She calls it “a shined goal”. Easier said than done, but we finally get there.

Later, as I re-read these slogans, I decide to place them front and centre on a sticky note, so that I will absorb them into my psyche.

Still unsure of the future, I feel ready to move forward to Strategies. But that is the next session and my next blog.


 

 

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About the Author:

The above entry is part of a new guest blog series titled “A Coaching Journey” written by my friend, client, and talented writer, Linda Epstein. She has graciously agreed to write on her experience with the coaching process as she navigates it, to give a first-hand view of what the journey is like. Visit weekly to find out more!

 

Read the rest of “A Coaching Journey” by clicking below:

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A Coaching Journey – Pt. 2

“So I have committed (I think) to take my self-improvement goals into my life as a whole with the help of certified results coach, Marielle Gauthier. I am feeling rather positive that the time is right, and that there are parts of my life that can be improved, although I have to admit to some trepidation. After all, this is likely to change the way I currently live my life.

I had just settled into that last thought when I received the Preparation Questionnaire from Marielle. The first question sent me into a panic. And I mean PANIC! What did I want to get out of coaching? Why was I doing this? I knew that there was an indefinable something that was missing in my life. But what was it?

I skipped the question and managed to answer the rest (even the strange ones, such as “I recycle at home – True or False”), even though there were some about which I was ambivalent. Then I went back to the first question, and the best I could do was to write that I wanted to take my life to the next level with the help through coaching (after all, I wasn’t managing to get there on my own).

So, in short, I do want to have a fuller, better life – one that fulfills me on every level; but I am even more frightened about this step into the abyss than I was when I started my physical health journey.

My next blog will discuss my first face-to-face with Marielle, and whether I am feeling more settled with this major decision about my life. Hope to “see you” then.”

 

 

 

 

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About the Author:

The above entry is part of a guest blog series titled “A Coaching Journey” written by my friend, client, and talented writer, Linda Epstein. She has graciously agreed to write on her experience with the coaching process as she navigates it, to give a first-hand view of what the journey is like. Visit weekly to find out more!

 

Read the rest of “A Coaching Journey” by clicking below:

Part 1Part 2Part 3Part 4

Have you heard about my NEW Up Your Game Coaching Program? If you’re ready to propel your career or business to the next level, this program is for you! Click Here to learn more.

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Sharpening the Saw – Are you Taking Enough Time to Ensure Your Tools are Performing?

How sharp is Your Saw?

Suppose you were to come upon someone in the woods working feverishly to saw down a tree.

“What are you doing?” you ask.
“Can’t you see,” comes the impatient reply. “I’m sawing down this tree.”
“You look exhausted” you exclaim. “How long have you been at it?”
“Over five hours,” he replies, “and I’m beat! This is hard work.”
“Well, why don’t you take a break for a few minutes and sharpen that saw?” you inquire. “I’m sure it would be a lot faster.”
“I don’t have time to sharpen the saw,” the man says emphatically. “I’m too busy sawing!”

– Stephen R. Covey

This anecdote is from Stephen Covey’s, ‘The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People’ and identifies ‘Sharpen the Saw’ as habit number 7. https://www.stephencovey.com/
So what does ‘sharpen the saw’ mean? Well essentially this habit is all about YOU! It is meant to preserve and enhance you by focusing on renewing the four dimensions of your nature – physical, spiritual, mental and social/emotional.
You have to give these four dimensions time, energy and attention in order to feed them for a healthy and balanced life.
In today’s very busy world, attention to these dimensions are very important for our well being. Like the saw that doesn’t get sharpened, if we don’t focus on these four dimensions, we will struggle to perform at our best. We will expend much more energy which will potentially lead to precarious levels of exhaustion and stress.

Let’s take a closer look at each of the dimensions:

1. The Physical Dimension

This dimension involves caring for your physical health – eating well, exercising on a regular basis, and getting a great night’s sleep.
How are your eating habits?Are you skipping meals? Are you eating nutritious food or are you living on a diet of coffee/soft drinks, high fat, high sugar and high salt foods? Are you experiencing stomach and gut issues? We often think that we eat better than we do, so for one week, log your eating habits. At the end of that week, decide if you want to make any changes to what you eat, when you eat, how much you eat, and how you feel after you have eaten. Speak with your doctor, nutritionist or dietician to make safe and effective nutritional dietary changes.

Exercise
According to Participaction, to achieve health benefits, adults aged 18-64 years should accumulate at least 150 minutes (2.5 hours) of moderate-to vigorous-intensity aerobic physical activity per week, in bouts of 10 minutes or more. You also want to include muscle and bone-strengthening activities at least two days per week. You can get more information at http://www.participaction.com/get-informed/physical-activity-guidelines/
If you’re not exercising much, consider what you can start doing for a few minutes a day, gradually working your way to the recommended amount of physical activity. Make sure you’re having fun doing the activity as it will help you to stick to it. Do speak to your health practitioner before starting to exercise.

Are you getting enough Z’zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz?
Good quality sleep is super important for us to be able to function at our peak. Are you waking up refreshed or are you hitting the snooze button a couple of times before you drag yourself out of bed? Does it take you a long time to fall asleep? Are there distractions in your bedroom – lots of light, cell phone on the nightstand, TV, etc.
There are a lot of things to consider for good sleep so if you’re experiencing sleep issues speak to your health practitioner. Mental Health Canada has great information about the importance of sleep. http://www.mentalhealthcanada.com/article_detail.asp?lang=e&id=28

 

2. The Spiritual Dimension

The spiritual dimension is your core, your commitment to your value system. A person’s spiritual dimension is a very personal and private area of life. What do you believe in that brings peace and strength within you? Are you living on purpose and is it aligned with your value system? Do you have a personal mission statement?
Our spirituality draws on sources that inspire and uplift us. We each have our own ways to renew our spiritual selves. Some will meditate, read a scripture, or attend a religious service. For others, music, literature or spending time in nature will support someone to feel renewed.
What do you do to renew your spiritual self?

 

3. The Mental Dimension

This dimension is about life-long learning, organizing and planning. Honing and expanding the mind is a vital mental renewal. The world is changing at an incredible pace, so what are you doing to keep up? What new skills are you learning? How are you planning and organizing your future?
As per Stephen Covey, writing is “another powerful way to sharpen the mental saw. Keeping a journal of our thoughts, experiences, insights, and learning promotes mental clarity, exactness, and context.”
Keep on learning!

 

4. The Social/Emotional Dimension

This dimension centres on the principles of interpersonal leadership, empathic communications, and creative cooperation. Covey states that “the social and the emotional dimensions of our lives are tied together because our emotional life is primarily, but not exclusively, developed out of and manifested in our relationships with others.”
It requires exercise to have effective everyday interactions with people. We need to practice active communication to effectively listen to others – especially when they don’t agree with us. That is how we achieve a win-win outcome. Listening with intent will also help us understand each others’ points of views.
By focusing on renewing the four dimensions of your nature on a daily basis, you will live a healthier, more productive, rewarding and balanced life.

Marielle Gauthier, owner and principal of Redworks Communications, is a certified Results coach and is accredited as an Associate Certified Coach (ACC) by the International Coaching Federation. Using brain based models, she holds coaching conversations with clients to help them gain clarity, generate insights, overcome self-limiting beliefs, and develop new habits to improve individual performance and become more effective leaders. She also coaches teams to improve their group performance and achieve corporate goals with measurable results. For more information on coaching services contact Marielle at (306) 955-3205, marielle@redworkscoaching.com or visit www.redworkscoaching.com. She is based in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan.

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A Coaching Journey – Pt. 1

Why I Chose Coaching – Guest Blog with Linda Epstein

 

I am 67. Retired for seven years. About 18 months ago, I started working with personal fitness trainer and health coach, Matt Jodouin, owner of Fortitude Health and Fitness. Not only did Matt manage to get me off my sedentary butt, he has gently led me beyond what I thought I could do. I have become stronger, more flexible and better balanced (that’s physically!). So far, I have lost 23 lbs and gained energy.

I realized that it was time to up my game and to take my self-improvement goals to the next level. It was time to set goals that would impact other areas of my life. So I started working with Results Certified Coach, Marielle Gauthier, owner of Redworks Communications and Coaching.

This guest blog chronicles my experiences, both positive and challenging. I invite you to join my journey (almost “live”) as I (hopefully) move forward under Marielle’s guidance and my hard work.

 

 

 

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Linda Epstein


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The above entry is the first of a new guest blog series titled “A Coaching Journey” written by my friend, client, and talented writer, Linda Epstein. She has graciously agreed to write on her experience with the coaching process as she navigates it, to give a first-hand view of what the journey is like. Visit weekly to find out more!

 

 

Read the rest of “A Coaching Journey” by clicking below:

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What Did Coaching Do for You? (Interview)

I asked my friend and client, Michael Robin, to give me an idea of why he pursued coaching, and what he got out of it. A special thanks goes out to Michael for sitting down with me to discuss his experience!

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